For the men… no guilt at being human

For the men… no guilt at being human

In 2017, I wrote a blog post called “No Guilt at Being Human.” I used to be a busy, stressed, martyred, perfectionist who felt like what I did was never enough.  My commitment in that post and at that time of my life was to: write more; have sex more; laugh more; not...
How being healthy made me sick

How being healthy made me sick

I like to talk about food.    Not just to lecture people about junk food. Or to say there is certain protocol that is best. But because cooking and eating bring me joy. When I put on my apron at the end of the day, I’m filled with a sense peace and creativity. I’m not...
How to Release all the Questioning

How to Release all the Questioning

What if what we’re experiencing is exactly as it was supposed to be?  The pain, too, especially the pain. Not because of learning how to accept it or because we’re supposed to learn some great lesson (which we probably will).  But simply because that’s what I was...
10 Essential Ways to call BS on the Rules

10 Essential Ways to call BS on the Rules

Most mornings I start the day off with quiet and coffee. I never know what’s going to come out… it’s a free for all once I get my pen in my hand lol. This is from those morning pages; a compilation of lessons and reminders of how I live my life. Much of it is contrary...
How to move into calm no matter what

How to move into calm no matter what

There is only one constant in this world right now. Only one thing we can truly control. That is our breath. Through it and with it we can influence our own bodies in very powerful ways. How are you breathing? Is it shallow, just to the chest? Or can you get the air...